Switch (Mistress and Submissive) but you need be a Power Person.
Sapiosexual and explores the deep fetishes of domination and submission (BDSM)
-sph
-joi
-cei
-cbt
-pegging
-humiliation
-domination
-sissification
-feminization
-jerking off
-ruined orgasm
-countdown
-bondage or shibari