Tips on how to make a good impression on a camgirl Or How Not To Look As An Asshole Online It took a big while for me to hatch the idea of this post and a bigger while to pluck up the courage to write about it. Yes, I know that some guys do not like to listen to the stuff I will tell. I found it out empirically coz every time my heart rate rises from a lack of understanding of some guys’ basic manners of communication - I am starting to speak about it. I am getting closer to my micro during the show, lower the music and just... speak. And every time the flow of tokens is disappearing and I understand why. You guys didn`t come here to get taught about how to live and behave (only if you are not into femdom lol) by a camgirl. However, I found it very important to start developing conscious behavior online. It so happens that now the World is developing faster than the human mind. And so now we are not able to notice ourselves in a big consuming stress, we don`t know how we acquired these conflicting bad habits (text in comments yours) and sometimes we act like beasts or primitive people online. And it`s not only about camsites. Some people don`t hesitate to text some shit from hidden or fake accounts on other social nets. _____________________________________________________________ ❗important note❗ I'm not here to judge. Sometimes (especially when I feel exhausted, frustrated and overwhelmed with stress) an evil Lucy wakes up inside of me and wants to put her own part of shit on the Internet. However, she does not do that, coz she understands that it is a non-ecological way to get rid of stress and assert yourself. _____________________________________________________________ I know that evolution will take over and after some time there will be a clean and ecological space on the Internet, but why not force it? Before I start let me make some things clear. There are only two currencies on camsites - energy and tokens. And to be honest it's pretty much the same thing. One is impossible without the other. One fine day I will make a post about it. But for now just trust me, okay? Okay! So here are my personal tips, I hope this will be useful for everyone. 1. If you still have thoughts that those greedy and mercantile women/camgirls do everything only for money and there is nothing real - just leave the site. Spending time here will hurt you even more. And maybe hurt the others. And remember - we see what we want to see (and unfortunately sometimes what we used to see) 2. No ALWAYS means no. Let me show you a real example from my own experience: -baby would you love to fist your pussy? - no - what if I tip 1000/5000/10000/10000000 tks? Instantly RED flag! 🚩 Would I ever accept a private invitation from this guy after that? No. Would I ever be actually interested in him and put effort into making a show for him in public if he tips? No. Would I ban him? If he keeping this line - obviously YES. 3. Continuing the previous topic. If you have a visible balance with tokens and expect that a model will do anything to receive it - I have bad news for you. If you think that you could force a show, be rude and just direct in public chat, even if you are a big tipper in the room - I have worse news for you. The truth is that you probably feel very unhappy in your real life. That makes you compensate it online to feel power, privileges and to get attention (fun fact - you need not only girl`s attention, you want to receive other guys’ respect) But in fact you just behave like an unhappy patriarchal pig. 4. Don`t try to fool a camgirl. You are not the first (and unfortunately not the last) and we instantly feel and recognize any possible tricks. Let me give you some examples: - Baby PM me for private! I want to discuss it! (ofc no tip according to this begging) Guys, you will be shocked, but my statistic shows that if a man wants to get me private, he will just take me private or tip ANY amount to discuss it in PM. It works in 100% of situations. - Baby what is ahegao? 🤡 Like.. man.. do you have a Google? - Baby this is my birthday today, can you make a discount for me/do something for free? (As it turned out he had a birthday almost every day..) PS Maybe one day you will manage to fool a new/inexperienced model. But trust me, the time will pass and she will find it out. Then she probably gets very angry and could get disappointed with men and this place. Anyway, she never ever let it happen again. Moreover, 95% of new studio models have a helper, who will explain to her that you are no more than a scammer and never let this happen. Anyways no one benefits from this situation. So what's the point? 5. This is my personal pain. Tipping many times with 1 token and asking for something from the menu (and the worst - asking for a hard show) Let me be honest and probably let me tell on behalf of many other models - 1 sec low vibrations feel like someone pokes in your vagina (I stole this phrase from another model, coz it absolutely accurately conveys all my personal feelings). That`s really odd when a guy after 1tk x10 asks - Do you like it baby mmmmmmmm?? Like.. what I am supposed to answer? Remember: tipping once 10 tks is way better than 10 times per 1. 6. Check the model`s bio/info and topic before texting something in chat or PM. You will save your and a model`s time and nerves. As for experienced models - you can find 70% info you are interested in - in her bio! Some things are pretty easy, don`t they? Sometimes you only need to open your eyes. 7. Breaking into PM without a tip is bad form. As for me - I would never reply. PS and one more pain is when you don`t receive a reply to your «hi bb hru» PM and start texting «??????????????» That means you have problems, man. I am not supposed myself be a private model. I am dancing, doing some actions during the public show and communicating with a chat. How dare you think I should leave everything and put all my focus on a no-tipped message from a random guy? Kinda egoistic, don`t you think? The World revolves around the Sun, not around you and your PM. 8. Spamming and dirty talking in chat. Trust me, that not only annoys a model - but the room as well. However, it is the fastest way to receive a mute 👍🏻 9. If you want a girl to take you seriously, try to avoid «BIGDICK100cm» etc. in your nickname. 10. The last one is for c2c lovers. No need to persuade a model that opening your cam is worth it until you tip for c2c according to a menu. We don`t care how long your cock is, how handsome you are and how hard are you. It does not matter until you show that you are not a regular freeloader and free-wanker. Girls are not here only for fun. Camming is a work first of all. Some of us combine pleasure, fun and work and that`s a perfect combo. I`m pretty sure that`s the way top models are born. But it’s still mostly work. Only for fun, we use Tinder and other places. Tho it does not mean that you are only a money wallet on the site. I have so many friends with whom we are on very good terms and they could not tip me at all. But they are helpful during the show, moderate the room .. and you know, they are just kind, gentle and very polite men, who love my company and whose company I love as well, coz I feel safe, knowing I don`t need to protect my borders and explain some basic things :) Just accept the fact that to receive something - you need to give something. To give it sincerely and with a big love. This rule works not only for cam sites. If you follow it in other spheres of your life you will be shocked at how your life will change and what an incredibly generous World we are living in. Remember that cam girls are here to make you feel women`s love and warmth. To give what you lack in real life. We are here to fill you with energy (and the type of energy you choose when you choose a girl). We are here to keep you company when you feel lonely. This is why cam sites were created and why they are so successful as well. So don`t try to fool the system and grab something for free. The law of reciprocity, like other mutual laws, works on the cam sites without exception. Be kind and you will be surprised how kind the world is turning to you. And never ever close your heart. Lucy loves you 🫶🏻
I dedicate this post to everyone with whom I`m getting closer online. You actually have no idea how complicated it is for me to write this uncomfortable post. But I feel obliged to write it to prevent false expectations and the disappointments that follow straight after that for you. And also prevent burnout for me. First info: I am not a girl who is always on her phone. I am not chatting with anyone even with friends from real life (excluding meeting agreements and working questions). Second info: I put too much of my personality on my shows. And showing yourself off to thousands of people daily is kind of energy-intensive. But this is the only possible way for me to interact with the world. And I love it. Now let's get down to business. I had some experiences when I was getting close to some of my online friends. Then sometimes on my initiative sometimes on theirs, we continued communicating besides the webcam sites - on twi/insta/WA/TG. And after that, all relationship problems usually begin. Why? Because I never realized and as a result never talked about my personal boundaries. So what then? After a while, the person on the other end of the phone was getting disappointed, coz no one (I mean me) explained to them that no need to expect me to be constantly in touch. _________________________________________________ ❗VERY important note❗ Never ever think it means that I don`t care about my online friends, or I neglect to communicate with them or avoid them, etc etc, etc I tried a million times to change myself and to be available for constant offline communication but it ALWAYS led to a burnout with my broadcasts. ALWAYS. And actually changing yourself just to satisfy other people's needs and not look indifferent in their eyes - is kind of a big lie and a big betrayal to yourself. _________________________________________________ I really do not know why I never ever tried to explain my peculiarity. But better now than never. ... uff after I texted that - I felt way better! Now we can move on! So what are those ways you can touch me/get to know me? 1. My shows, it is the best and the most effective way to communicate with me. If you want a private conversation - you need to take me to a private show. And we can discuss the whole world, get to know each other and have a good time together. 2. Read my blog here - there are my thoughts about life, about webcam industry, and my feelings about everything that is actually going on 3. Follow my twitter, I post something almost every day and feel so much freedom in that. I am not shy to post me crying sharing some life's difficulties or vice versa. And probably that`s it. I can not deny that one day something will change. But I also can not promise it. The only thing I know is that the best way to live your life is, to be honest with yourself and the people around you. And today I made the first and the most complicated step. Thank you🫶🏻

They made me cry during the show Nice and provocative start, isn`t it? However, it is a pure truth. But let me make it clear - the first time on my show I started crying after a very hard orgasm. I was smiling, crying, looking straight at the camera and realizing that I felt so happy at the moment. Tho it made me cry even more lol Now I am texting that and remembering other episodes of me crying during the stream. First time it happened when I was working for a studio. Rules were strict; you must be on the cam for 8-9 hours 5 days per week. Not every girl could handle it, especially if she puts too much of her personality into the show. As I remember it was a deep night, I felt so devastated, exhausted and upset. No need to say that with that mood nothing good could ever happen online. I started texting my manager trying to explain my situation and hoping that she let me go home and just take a rest. Spoiler! That could never happen. What did I feel? That I am like an animal in a cage. I felt helpless. Now I understand that all those studios have a voluntary slavery policy. The saddest thing is that no matter how angry I was at my studio, at that moment I agreed to work with them. And I understood that I could always leave. As I later did. Almost 2 years have passed since then, but I remember everything in great detail. So maybe it`s time to let those memories go and replace them with new ones? My previous show was incredibly sensual and insanely emotional. I felt such a great connection with the room. I felt loved by so many different people at the same time. I felt pure bliss. This feeling is incomparable when you let yourself just be yourself without any fear of looking silly/ridiculous/odd/~put your own variant~ The time disappeared. It was a total flow. That is what was approximately happening in my mind during the show. But what was happening in fact? In fact, I was literally dying from pleasure sitting on the chair with my legs up spread. My toy was vibing non-stop inside of me. My fingers were caressing my clit and my pussy. I was totally shocked at the fact that guys knew how to make me feel even better (tho I was pretty sure that the next step in my journey of bliss was a death from heart attack😂) I felt so much tension inside of me. My pussy and clit were literally erected. I felt how it was pulsing. I knew that I could explode in every minute, but I wanted to prolong that moment and maybe make the ending even brighter. And so it happened. After I felt my orgasm incoming - my ears got immediately stuffed (yes sometimes there are side effects from strong orgasms lol) The tension in my pussy was so huge that it seemed to me that it would tear me apart from the inside. I kept fingering myself. Damn, I went so wild.. Then in a second, it felt like I was struck by lightning. Darkness in my eyes. Curled toes (I didn`t see but I was told) My body seemed to become wadded. Tho pussy was pulsing like crazy. As soon as I managed to open my eyes I found the lush just flew out of me and dropped on the floor. In a while on the same floor, I noticed a puddle of something. I don`t know if that was a real squirt or if it was just me dropping water on the floor and didn`t notice that. And to be honest, for now I don`t really care. I slid down from the chair to my knees. Tears flowed like a stream, I broke into a smile. It was one of the happiest days so far. And I am extremely happy that now I have such magical memories. I am so sincerely grateful to everyone who was with me that day and who took part in all that incredible madness. I love you with all my heart ________________________________________________________ Attached is a video recording from that moment on my show
Okay, it`s a nice-to-meet-you post My fav song ever is by Allan Rayman «Lucy the tease» and my name is Lucy by the way! Nice to meet you here I`m a smart and beautiful 21 years old girl and I find this place perfect to unleash my dark naughty side The truth is that I really love sex I love sharing my love and inspiring you I love feeling connection I love my orgasms. I love yours "In second of orgasm whole world is concentrated" So that`s the actual reason why as soon as I become an adult I started working as a camgirl Now I feel more like an online performer than a camgirl I also really enjoy making naughty pics of myself and I hope that you appreciate my that hobby 😏 I am also a very ambitious and purposeful girl. And there is one big goal I want to share with you. I want to study the effect of sound waves on human consciousness, explore brain wave activity and create my own melodies, meditations and sounds that will help people all around the world to get out of anxiety, depression, upset mood and to feel better. I want to create an app that will be the most popular app on the App Store. And I know that I will do that. I believe in small steps theory and I`m making little steps every day! The thing I know for sure - when I become a successful businesswoman, IT entrepreneur and scientist - I would never stop broadcasting and having a sex blog. It is a big part of me and without it I would never be happy. So now you probably think that you know me better, right? Don`t rush to conclusions, there are some facts about me: 1. I don`t like olives and cucumbers 2. I am an ex-medical student (left it on the 3d grade) 3. In high school I was writing sex stories about Malfoy and Hermione.. 4. I meditate every day for more than 2 hours 5. My fav flowers are peonies 6. My day usually starts at 4-5 AM (it`s all my body`s choice I swear) 7. My heart belongs to my cats 8. I can experience a hundred emotions in a second and sometimes I can't handle this hurricane myself 9. If you read till this we`ll definitely get along xoxo
I am officially a big fan of my own booty! From now and forever
The most complicated thing (according to Lucy`s opinion) is to start. To make a first step. So that`s what I am actually doing right now - I`ve just texted the first sentence, which means I`ve already started! yay My World and my Life are changing so fast that I don`t have enough time to fix it somewhere, even through my phone camera. Though an inattentive gaze would never notice some wonderful things happening. Thanks God it`s not about me! haha Well, less abstract reflections and more facts. Approximately a month ago I moved back to the capital of my country. (Let me put you into context - for 8 months I`ve been living in a small village in the countryside. I needed social isolation to restore my mental health and clean my mind) I moved to the first-ever my own apartment. No landlords. No unexpected calls. No one could (at least legally) bother me in my own place. (Some more context - I never ever lived in MY place. Even with parents. I always paid the rent. So what can I tell? That feels different! And the fact that I can make everything here just as I want blows my mind even more!) Well, what was next? Right after moving, I went on my vacation! I visited my motherland to spend time with my parents. A year ago after all the traumatic experiences I could never imagine myself getting back, even for a few days. But Lucy a year ago and Lucy today - are two completely different personalities. I enjoyed my vacation a lot. I missed my family so much. I love them with all my heart. Tho being in the place you were escaping from more than a year ago with two cats - was not easy. Escaping literally to nowhere, having only one thought - anywhere but here, I'm not safe here anymore. Now things have changed. A week after I returned to my new place of living. My own safe space. Two happy cats were waiting for me. One more day to furnish my home. Another day to spend caring about myself and my body. And here I am. I am back. Young beautiful happy girl is full of energy and love. This is your Lucy. Then I got back to my shows. I feel completely different again. I feel stronger than ever before. And right after the first broadcast I found myself on the top of the most popular camsite on the planet. This was always my big dream. Before starting my broadcasting career I was scrolling this site, watching other top models with thousands of viewers. And I knew that one day I will be one of them. I could tell that now I am one of them. But this would not be a truth. The truth is that if I was able to imagine that with so many details - that means that it`s already mine. I just need to be able to take it. Even a month ago I was not able to take it. Now I am. So - as you see I managed to text a lil story! No need to stress at the very least remember - even the best of us stress while making a first step. On that positive note, I'll probably end up and start getting ready for my Saturday show. And before I go I would love to remind you of one amazing phrase - You are what you believe in.
Well-well-well! Hello lovers! Biggest comeback of your Lucy! Today I`d love to share with you my fetish story. I guess for some of you it will be a big surprise. Good or bad - you decide haha. First it happened to me on my show. Just imagine 18 yo Lucy is just on her way to start her broadcasting career. Very inexperienced, but full of enthusiasm. I guess it was my 4th week of working. The thing you should know about me at that time - I was totally in love with a new occupation and was open to all the experiments. I was not overwhelmed and frustrated yet by tough and strict rules implying 8 hours online at the studio I worked for. It was a deep night. I am sitting in front of the camera in my broadcasting room. 5 more models were broadcasting nearby in similar rooms, but it always felt that I am the only one in the Universe when I am online. Stream is in full swing and suddenly I receive a 100 tks tip with a question «Hey, Lucy. Is that possible that you are into foot fetish?» - Ah, if only I knew! - inner voice told inside me. - Well, it depends on what you are interested in😏 - replied smart and tricky Lucy «Toes sucking, baby. Can you suck your toes for me?» he asked, backing up my interest with 1000 tokens tip. 0,03 seconds of decision making and then the girl said «Yes» Actually, I was expecting no reaction from my body. I thought I already know my sexuality enough. I thought🤭 Right after I started sucking my toes I felt like an electrical discharge went through my body. In a spit of a second I got wet, my nipples got hard. I could not believe the simple thing of sucking toes can cause such an effect. I was literally shaking from pleasure while I was doing that. Then he started vibing my toy as crazy and I don’t remember anything after that. I just came my brains out. Almost passed away. Haha I never met this guy again on the site. But I will never forget him and this first toes-licking experience he gave me. I am very grateful. So now you know one more secret receipt on how to drive me crazy on my show.